When your unforgiven
So what do you do when someone refuses to forgive you for something you did? Well im sure there are volumes of psych study that cover this, and the interactions to lead to such situations. However I will share my experience in the hope others can get something out of it. My father passed away over 2 years ago now, and I miss him every day. When he was young my grandparents help raise one of my uncles (non blood), after his father left him abandoned. My uncle Max and my father grew up together and were close for most of their adult lives. As I have stated before during my mental collapse I hurt my parents pretty badly, and with my financial collapse as well my parents lost the way of life that my income provided. From the outside it looked like I had intentionally made this happen. Of course we all know now that it was my self destruction that caused the havoc. My parents and my dads sister forgave me, they understood that it wasn't me during t...